EULOGIES & OBITUARIES

Celebrating Stories, Memories, and Legacies

How to Write an Obituary

Writing an obituary is often an emotional experience, but it can also be a meaningful way to honor a loved one's life. Start by gathering details from family and friends, such as their early life, education, career path, hobbies, and interests. Be sure to include important information like the date, time, and location of any planned funeral or memorial services. Using an obituary template can help organize your thoughts and ensure the tribute is complete and well-structured.


Sample Obituary Styles:

  • Basic Obituary
  • Cremation Obituary
  • Burial Obituary


Obituary Templates:

Fill-in-the-Blank (Short and Long Versions)
Example Format:
{Title or Role} {First Name} "{Nickname}" {Last Name} (née {Maiden Name}) passed away {peacefully/unexpectedly} on {Date} at {Location} in {City, State} at the age of {Age}.


{Name} is lovingly survived by {Family Members and Their Names}, and is preceded in death by {Relatives and Their Names}.

Born on {Birthdate} in {City, State}, {Name} graduated from {School} with a degree in {Field of Study}. {He/She} later married {Spouse's Name} in {Year} and pursued a career at {Company/Organization}. {Other major life events, achievements, and personal milestones}.


A funeral service will be held at {Time and Date} at {Location}, followed by a reception. {Officiant's Title and Name} will lead the ceremony. All are welcome to join in remembering and celebrating {Name}'s life. Flowers and condolences may be sent to {Address}.

How to Write a Eulogy

Writing and delivering a eulogy can feel overwhelming, but it is a heartfelt way to honor your loved one’s memory. Being asked to give a eulogy is a meaningful responsibility and a tribute in itself. Here’s a simple guide to help you create and share a memorable eulogy:


1. Gather Memories and Details

Speak with family, friends, and colleagues to collect meaningful stories, major life events, hobbies, achievements, and travels. Personal details will help paint a full, vibrant picture of your loved one's life.

2. Organize Your Thoughts

Create a loose outline or list of important points you want to cover. It doesn’t need to be perfect — just a structure you can build on.

3. Write It Out

Write your eulogy fully rather than improvising. Having a written version ensures you include every important memory you want to share. Print it in a large font or handwrite it with extra spacing to make it easier to read during the service.

4. Edit and Refine

Once you finish the first draft, take a break and review it with fresh eyes later. Fine-tuning your speech ensures that it flows naturally and conveys the tone you want.

5. Practice Reading It

Practice the eulogy aloud several times. Rehearse in front of a mirror or with close family or friends who can offer feedback. Becoming familiar with your words will help you speak with more confidence and emotion.

6. Add Light Moments When Appropriate

While a funeral is a solemn occasion, sharing a warm or funny story (as long as it's respectful) can bring comfort and fond memories. Humor, when used thoughtfully, can be a beautiful way to celebrate a loved one's spirit.

7. Allow Emotion

It’s perfectly natural to show emotion while speaking. If you are concerned about becoming too overwhelmed, you might ask a trusted friend or family member to have a backup copy in case they need to step in.

8. Prepare Essentials

Bring a glass of water and a few tissues with you. Being prepared will help you stay composed and focused during your tribute.